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Call her golden girl or goody-two shoes, but it is not easy being Taylor Swift.
She has maintained her position as one of the world’s biggest pop starlets in the past few years while being relatively untainted by controversy, even as every detail of her personal life is lapped up by fans and put under the glare of social and traditional media.
If rival Miley Cyrus is the exhibitionist riding on her out-there brand of sexuality, Swift is the tease whose self-penned songs appear to be confessional without revealing much.
Despite much speculation that recent songs such as her 2010 hit single Back To December and Dear John are about famous ex-boyfriends such as Twilight star Taylor Lautner and singer John Mayer, Swift herself has always been tight-lipped about her muses.
Forget, too, about any Justin Bieber-style public meltdowns from the 24-year-old from Pennsylvania, who got her start as a country singer before making a hugely successful crossover to pop.
In a 10-minute telephone interview with Life! from Tokyo - a stop in her current, wildly popular The Red world tour - she says that having to deal with living in the public eye has made her very careful about keeping the less savoury side of her behind closed doors.
"It’s interesting because every day of my life is documented in some way, either there’s paparazzi outside my apartment or fans see me at a restaurant and they tweet about it," says the singer, who will be here to perform two nights at the Singapore Indoor Stadium on Monday and June 12.
"And that’s an interesting thing to come to terms with because some days, you’re completely in the mood to meet strangers and you want to meet as many people as possible.
"And then there are days when you know when you have a bad day and you don’t want to meet anyone or talk to anyone. When I wake up and I have sort of a bad attitude once in a while, I know I can’t leave the house because it’s not an option to not talk to people," she says.
"My life is a very social experience these days," she adds with a laugh.
Staying at home when she has gotten up on the wrong side of bed is the price of success. She topped Billboard’s list of highest-paid musicians of last year, making close to US$40 million (S$50 million) through music sales, royalties and digital music and video-streaming revenue, not to mention the sold-out stadiums on The Red tour in support of her latest album of the same name.
Like her counterpart and former child star Cyrus, Swift practically grew up in the music business.
Inspired as a pre-teen by crossover country-pop acts such as The Dixie Chicks and Shania Twain, the waif-like blonde started performing around Pennsylvania. To aid her budding singing and songwriting career, Swift’s family moved to an outlying suburb in America’s songwriting capital, Nashville.
The move paid off tremendously when her selftitled debut, released at the age of 16, became an instant hit, staying at the top of Billboards country music charts for 24 weeks and peaking at No. 5 in the mainstream charts.
Since then, all her albums, Fearless (2008), Speak Now (2010) and Red (2012) have all peaked at No. 1 on the main Billboard charts. To date, she has sold 26 million albums and 75 million digital single downloads.
Swift is also one the most decorated young music stars of recent times, with a truckload of awards that includes seven Grammys (she is the youngest artist ever to win Album of the Year), 15 American Music Awards, 12 Billboard Music Awards (she is the youngest artist to pick up Woman of the Year) and 11 Country Music Association Awards.
In November last year, Swift was awarded one of country music’s highest honours - the Country Music Association Awards’ Pinnacle Award. The only other artist to have picked up the trophy, given to country artists who have achieved global success and recognition, is American country juggernaut Garth Brooks, 28 years her senior.
Her rise from Nashville to global pop superstardom can be summed in how music magazine Rolling Stone described her in two separate articles - she was deemed “country music darling” in a 2008 article but by 2012, she was already “pop’s unstoppable princess”.
Her dainty good looks belie a canny singersongwriter whose infectious country-pop melodies and whimsical, straight-talking lyrics have connected with legions of fans. While not one to kiss and tell, she emphasises that her lyrics are a document of the things that have happened to her in real life.
She explains: “In a huge sense, documenting my life is a No. 1 priority and documenting it as accurately as possible in the form of music.
"Priority No. 2 is making sure that I’m documenting my life in a way that the fans can understand and isn’t too over their heads or things they want to hear."
Her fans, she will have you believe, drive every aspect of her creative decisions, especially the songs that she plays in her many sold-out shows.
"Pretty much everything I do is based on what they want, not what I want. I don’t play my favourite songs that were not popular in concert, I play the songs they want to hear."
The same principle applies to her yet-to-bereleased new album, her fifth and the follow-up to Red, which has sold more than five million copies to date.
"Moving forward in my career, we’re in a very important planning stage right now, getting everything together for the next project.
"Every single choice that I make is determined by what I think (fans) will like and what I think will be good for them to see or hear on the new album."
She was secretive about the new songs though and declined to give details, not even the date when they are expected to be released.
With a laugh, she says: “I wish so badly that I could talk about the new record, I really do, that’s all I want to talk about, it’s all I think about, I’m obsessed with it.
"All I can really tell you is that it’s my favourite thing of all I’ve ever done and I promise you, you’ll know why."
Swift was less guarded when it came to the subject of her Asian tour, the final leg of The Red which started in March last year. Her Singapore date on June 12 is the last stop on the tour, which has taken her all over North America, Europe and Australia.
"I think one of the things that’s really cool is that my fans all seem to be very similar in spirit and the things they love," she says of playing for her fans in Asia.
"They love lyrics, they tend to be optimistic and they tend to be nice to one another and they love dressing up in crazy costumes for the show and memorising all the words to the songs, but different things separate fans in different cultures, there are different gifts they give you."
Her fans in China, where she played for the first time last month, gave her coffee mugs with cats on them (“which was really nice because I like coffee mugs and I like cats”), while her followers in Japan tend to give her traditional Japanese fans.
"But they also give a lot of hair accessories, which I really like because now that my hair is short, pretty much all I can do with it is a hairclip or a headband."
Swift is looking forward to her gig in Singapore, which will feature local act Imprompt-3, winners of the Cornetto’s Ride To Fame Competition to pick the concert’s opening act.
She last played a sold-out show at the Indoor Stadium in 2011. Tickets to her return concert on June 12 sold out quickly. After her Bangkok gig on Monday was cancelled with the Thai army’s declaration of martial law, Swift added another Singapore show on the same night. Extra tickets were also released for the June 12 show.
According to the organisers, 70 per cent of the tickets on Monday have been sold so far.
And just like with her last gig, the plan is for her mother to come with her. Swift’s mother actually spent part of her growing up years in Singapore when Swift’s grandfather, who worked for an engineering company, moved here for work.
"My mum grew up in Singapore," the singer tells you as a parting shot, before your allotted interview time is up. "Her parents were travelling around for my grandfather’s job. It was always really wonderful to bring her back so she can see her old neighbourhood and see where she grew up, I think it’s really nostalgic for her."
Even a casual Taylor Swift observer knows that there’s no style statement that the singer loves more than a great red lip. In fact, it doesn’t surprise us to find out (via the video below) that she usually chooses her outfit based on her red lipstick of the day. So when we got to chat with Swift at an Glendale, Calif. event to celebrate Keds-wearing style icons (as well as Swift’s own collection for the line) we had to ask: How many red lipsticks does she actually have?
“I don’t have an excessive amount! I just find one I like and use it,” she tells PEOPLE. “Right now [I’m using] Dragon Girl by NARS … I’ll go through different phases with makeup and always try new things. Except I never really get too far from red lipstick, do I? I guess I just think my face looks worse without it. That’s pretty much the only rationale behind it.”
We also asked about her affinity for high-heeled Oxfords (she swears she doesn’t have as many as we think!) and she explained that she likes the normality of the style in an industry that’s all about the six-inch stiletto. “I really like an oxford high heel for kind of looking more like either a student or like you’re going to work,” she says, laughing. “I don’t know, there’s something [that gives me some normality]. That’s what I kind of like to channel when I’m wearing them.”
Swift spoke to Teen Vogue editor Andrew Bevan about her own style at the Keds Style Icons event at the Nordstrom at The Americana at Brand (below) and she tells PEOPLE that she’s confident enough in her own style — and so are her many star BFFs — that she rarely shares clothes. “The one common thread between [my friends] is they know who they are and they’re very sure of who they are,” she says. “We don’t usually have the same style. If they see me wearing something, they know it’s because that’s something that represents me and they’ll wear something very different … It doesn’t really affect the conversation, what we’re wearing.”
Taylor Swift and her cat Meredith both seem to have a soft spot for ball gowns — which Swift found out with near-disastrous consequences the night of the Met Gala, when Meredith went after her gown.
“I’ve never seen more fashionable people lose their composure quicker than when a cat walks up to a satin, custom Oscar de la Renta gown and then decides to make a home inside of it,” the singer told PEOPLE of the cat’s Met Gala antics while at the Keds Style Icons Event at Nordstrom at The Americana at Brand.
“She just passed, dug her claws in and started to roll … like when you see a crocodile attack an antelope on National Geographic,” explained the star, 24. “That’s what she tried to do to the dress.”
Luckily, Swift’s little ball of fur — who “fancies herself as quite a hunter” — didn’t cause any real damage to the “Red” singer’s frock. Said Swift, laughing, “She’s a chubby housecat. She’s not very strong!”
Aside from the near feline-fashion disaster, the rest of the getting-ready process for fashion’s biggest night went off without a hitch.
“I got ready with Karlie [Kloss],” Swift said. “We were both wearing Oscar de la Renta, and we kind of shared a hair girl and got ready in a hotel room. It was so much fun getting ready with one of your best friends.”
Taylor Swift has revealed a lot about herself through her music over the last eight years. Favorite color? Red, duh. Best year or her life? 22 of course. Lucky number? Naturally it’s 13. But what TV show does she binge watch on the weekends like the rest of us? What superpower would she choose?
When I had the chance to talk to the seven-time Grammy award winner at her Keds Perfect Pairs event at Nordstrom in Los Angeles yesterday, I decided to find out! I asked a series of rapid-fire questions designed to reveal some cold, hard facts (you know, like what’s her spirit animal), all in hopes of giving you a little extra insight into one of the world’s biggest stars.
Wearing striking blue eyeliner and one of her many signature short sleeve dresses in a matching shade of cobalt, Taylor graciously took the hot seat, and here’s what she had to say:
What’s the last book you read?
A book about Zelda Fitzgerald.
What’s the last website you visited?
Anthropologie.com. And real estate websites which I have to stop doing.
What’s the last song you listened to?
"Cop Car" by Keith Urban. You gotta listen to it. It’s my jam.
What’s the last song you sang along to?
What’s the last movie watched?
What’s the last TV show you watched?
Friends last night—a marathon!
What’s the last app used?
An astrology one. And it just said, “Be yourself today.” And I was like, thanks? It’s like when you get a very generic fortune cookie and you’re like, “This doesn’t help me. I really needed you today and you didn’t give me anything real.” I think I need to buy the real app. I don’t think they give you a lot on the free one.
What’s the last museum or monument you visited?
The Met because I was at the Met Ball. You walk through the entire museum exhibit to get to the party. I think wearing a ball gown and being with your friends is pretty sick.
What’s the last gift you gave a friend?
It was random—one of those tiny little emergency kits that have all the things in it a girl would need, like a mini sewing kit. You know, those little glittery bags you can get at Sephora and put in your purse.
What’s your spirit animal?
A fox. Because they have to run and hide a lot and I have to run and hide a lot too. I didn’t mean that to sound sad! In my head it sounded like more of a statement and when I said it, it sounded like something you say before you cry. [Laughs]
If you had one superpower what would it be?
What’s your motto?
"I got 99 problems"—no, I’m just kidding. Did you ever watch the movie Love Actually where Hugh Grant’s voiceover says, “If you look around, love actually is all around”? That’s my favorite motto.
Nashville is more than the heart of Taylor Swift’s business, it’s her home. But the city she came to as 13-year-old aspiring singer has grown far beyond its musical roots; it’s now an economic and cultural powerhouse. TIME’s Alex Rogers spoke to Swift about her favorite city for this week’s magazine feature which looks at the unique alchemy that makes Nashville both a classic American city and a modern success story. Here are excerpts of their conversation.
TIME: Why did you decide to live in Nashville?
SWIFT: I decided to move to Nashville when I was about 10 years old. I was obsessed with watching biography TV shows about Faith Hill and Shania Twain, and I noticed that both of them went to Nashville to start their careers. From that point on, I began relentlessly nagging, begging, and pleading with my parents to take me on a trip there. When I was 11, my mom took my brother and me to Nashville on spring break and we drove up and down Music Row. She would wait in the car as I scampered into record labels one by one, handing my demo CD to the receptionists. I remember thinking it was so odd and wonderful that all of these important record labels were all on one street, most of them in small buildings and old houses. I remember being charmed by how kind people were to strangers and newcomers like us. We took more and more trips to Nashville as time went by, and when at 13, I was offered a development deal by a major record label, my parents gave in and we moved from Pennsylvania.
TIME: Have you ever considered moving your operations to L.A. or New York?
SWIFT: I love L.A. and New York and I spend a lot of time there promoting albums and doing photo shoots. I’ve been lucky enough to find friends who live in New York, L.A., and Nashville, so none of those cities ever feel foreign or lonely. Choosing to have my management company based in Nashville just made sense because my family is there as well as my record label. I never think about moving home bases. It’s hard to describe why you consider a town your home base, except that when people ask me “Where’s home?”, I don’t even think before I say “Nashville.”
TIME: How much time do you spend in Nashville?
SWIFT: I spend as much time in Nashville as I can. The cool thing about spending time in Nashville is that no one knows when I’m there. In New York and L.A., there are photographers waiting on the street, and it seems like every errand I run is photographed and documented. You don’t see as much evidence of me spending time in Nashville, because I’m not being photographed at the grocery store. I’m just able to wander around the grocery store and make casual conversation with the girl standing next to me in the produce aisle.
TIME: How has Nashville changed over the years?
SWIFT: Nashville has changed so much since I moved here almost ten years ago. It’s become a popular, trendy place to live for families and young professionals. It’s become a well-known music hub for genres other than just country. There are now fantastic, highly acclaimed restaurants and top of the line hotels. New high-rise buildings have popped up every time I come home and I think it’s so awesome that Nashville is booming. The attention it’s getting is well deserved.
TIME: How close is the city’s country music community?
SWIFT: The country music community is the closest musical community I’ve witnessed. I see a different songwriter or producer I’ve worked with almost every time I’m out to dinner. All of the artists know each other. Half of us have opened up for the other half on tour, and we’ve met each other at some radio station or awards show. I could list at least five other country artists who live in my apartment building, so I actually run into them in the elevator on a regular basis.
TIME: What’s your favorite spot in the city?
SWIFT: I absolutely love the parks and trails. There’s a park called Radnor Lake that’s gorgeous on a fall day. I’ve had some of my best days walking there with my dad, talking about life. Another huge priority for me is having a good coffee place to go and hang out. Fido has such a great atmosphere, and you can wander around browsing the shops in Hillsboro Village once you’re there. I love driving past the Bluebird Cafe, because that’s where I played the acoustic show that ended up getting me a record deal. The other areas where I like to go for cute restaurants and shopping are 12th South and East Nashville. Now I have to stop because I sound like I am the president of the Nashville Tourism Board. Sorry, not sorry, I just love it here.
Cindi Leive: …I heard you were giving out dating advice on the Glamour shoot. To the hair and makeup team?
Taylor Swift: Oh my God. I talk about this stuff all the time.
CL: Here’s something our readers ask about constantly: When you feel like a guy you’re dating has the upper hand, how do you change the game?
CL: What’s the freeze-out?
TS: You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.
CL: Have you employed the freeze-out?
TS: [Nods. Pauses.] I think everyone should approach relationships from the perspective of playing it straight and giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Until he establishes that this is a game. And if it’s a game, you need to win. The best thing to do is just walk away from the table.
CL: Is that winning?
TS: It is when they come back. [Laughs.] And if they don’t, then they didn’t care enough to begin with.
CL: Another reader question: Is it too clingy and too insecure to say “I don’t like it when you don’t text me back right away”?
TS: Guarding your heart and protecting your dignity are a little bit more important than clarifying the emotions of someone who’s only texting you back three words. I’ve learned that from trying to figure out people who don’t deserve to be figured out. When someone seems mysterious, we like to romanticize that he’s “deep” or “complicated.” But a lot of the time, things are exactly as they seem…. For a long time I was drawn to—and still am drawn to—people I find very interesting. [But] someone who sits and talks about themselves for an hour, you start to maybe wonder if, rather than trying so hard to be interesting, they could be a little bit more interested.
CL: Is this a dating observation?
TS: It’s a human being observation.
CL: Give us a few more tricks.
TS: Never yell.
CL: Never yell?
TS: Silence speaks so much louder than screaming tantrums. Never give anyone an excuse to say that you’re crazy.
CL: So will you continue to write about your personal life?
TS: One of my big goals as a human being is to continue to write what’s really happening to me, even if it’s a tough pill to swallow for people around me… I do fear that if I ever were to have someone in my life who mattered, I would second-guess every one of my lyrics.
Taylor Swift is trying to think how to sum up the vocal talents of one of the most high profile men she’s ever shared a microphone with – the Karaoke Kid aka HRH Prince William.
She lets out a couple of slightly supressed, rather ladylike squeals as she works out loud exactly what to say.
'I mean, he is a member of the royal family, this was a private event and I wouldn’t ever want to say anything remotely disrespectful because I absolutely adore William and Kate,' she says.
I tell her not to worry, that beheading is a thing of the past in the British royal family and she laughs out loud.
The clip of them – alongside Jon Bon Jovi – singing Livin’ On A Prayer went viral on You Tube a few months ago. She herself has kept a DVD copy.
'Well both of us were more screaming than singing,' she says.
'But even through all that I could hear his voice and it is pretty good. A nice tone. I’d definitely say he’s got star quality and if he ever wants me to sing with him again I’ll be there.'
At 24, with seven Grammy awards, record sales counted in billions as opposed to millions, a personal fortune of £62 million and all five dates of her current UK tour (which kicks off at The London O2 today) selling out within hours of going on sale, William is just part of a long line of stage partners from Justin Beiber to J-Lo, Stevie Nicks, Ed Sheeran, Carly Simon, Nicki Minaj and the Seventies American singer/songwriter she was named after, James Taylor.
But for a girl who – in a sea of Mileys, Gagas and Rihannas – uses words like ‘decorum’, absolutely believes in respecting your elders, has turned down millions to pose for Playboy (‘There are a lot of offers that just don’t make sense to me’) and whose dress code limits are hot pants; that infamous Centrepoint charity event at Kensington Palace alongside Jon Bon Jovi and a flushed and delighted looking Prince William was, she said: ‘A night I will remember till I’m very, very old.’
She says: ‘The whole evening was completely wondrous and felt so special from the start.
'The theme was ‘winter white’ so I wore a long, white ball gown. Just walking through those beautifully ornate rooms and corridors in Kensington Palace with string quartets playing and that sense of all those people in history who’d walked through the same rooms was completely magical.
'I had no idea I’d even meet Prince William. At the reception I saw Jon Bon Jovi talking to him and then he came over, smiled and started talking to me. I’d never met him before, he was so charming, so easy to talk to.
'I completely love him - and Kate… Looking at them just makes me feel happy,' said Taylor
'I know about curtseying in front of the royal family but I didn’t actually do it because it was much more informal.
'Plus I was completely taken aback by his first words to me, he said: ‘I hear you’re heading off to Australia’ and I couldn’t believe this Prince of England actually knew what someone like me was up to.
'Kate wasn’t with him but he actually sat next to me for the concert.
'We were in the front row and there were singers like James Blunt, Tinie Tempah and Eliza Doolittle sitting near us.
'Jon Bon Jovi got up to perform and he called him out because he’d heard William loves singing Livin’ On A Prayer on karaoke nights. Then he said to everyone in the room: “If I put pressure on the Karaoke Kid he’ll have to get up and sing.”
'Prince William looked and me and said: ‘I’ll do it if you do it too’ and then took my hand. I was just completely surprised and flattered and it felt surreal and completely natural at the same time.
'We jumped on the stage and started to sing and then we were really yelling into the microphone and clapping hands. I still can’t believe I’ve sung with the Prince of England.
'But I completely love him – and Kate – I wished I got to meet her too because those guys are like this perfect, perfect couple. Looking at them just makes me feel happy.'
You’d think a girl like Taylor would be pretty happy all the time because she’s got everything she wanted. The last time I met her she was 19 and just on the cusp of becoming huge.
Now she is mega-huge, up there with Beyonce, Katy Perry, Rihanna and Adele and with homes in Nashville, Rhode Island and Hollywood, who at this years Grammies stunned everyone by head-banging her way through the ballad ‘All Too Well’.
'God, so much has happened to me in the past few years,' she says. 'It’s true that years in the celebrity world are like dog years and in that sense I feel about 45. It has got crazy but I like to think I’m pretty much the same person I was back then.'
She has not - unlike her peers Miley Cyrus, Justin Beiber and Rihanna – gone wild in an attempt to twerk her way into the credible sex, drugs and rock ‘n’ roll hall of fame.
'I think I’ve kept to the same goals I’ve always had,' she says. 'I don’t compare myself to anyone else, I don’t make comments about anyone else because they do what feels right for them and that’s okay by me.
'You get to a point where it’s like you can’t really do anything right and people will pick on you for whatever decisions you make, so I just try and take no notice and get on with my music.'
What’s the wildest, most hedonistic thing she has ever done? She laughs: ‘That is a tough one, I think I’ll have to ask my friends.’
She has never, she says, done anything illegal. She didn’t have a drink till she was 21 and has recurring panic dreams of being arrested for something she didn’t do.
She’s still thinking about that wild thing and drawing blanks but the more she thinks about it the more unapologetic she becomes.
There is a core of steel to Swift that has – along with her song writing – won her praise from some of the toughest and most difficult to impress.
'God, so much has happened to me in the past few years. It's true that years in the celebrity world are like dog years and in that sense I feel about 45,' said Taylor (pictured at the GRAMMY Awards)
Neil Young says he likes her. ‘I like her music, I like watching her respond to her attacks, I like the way she’s defining herself.’
Elvis Costello says: ‘You can see self-possession there and I’m intrigued by that.’
She likes to throw parties for her girlfriend but no TVs are chucked out of hotel windows, no eggs (sorry Justin) are thrown at neighbours walls.
'For me relaxing is cooking, baking. In the winter I bake, I make pumpkin loaves and chocolate chip cookies, in the summer I cook. I do a great Japanese stir fry with chicken and vegetables and pasta with vegetables and vodka sauce.'
When she comes to Britain for her tour she’s hoping to see something of the Great British Bake Off.
'I’ve heard of that show,' she says. 'I really want to see it because I’m completely passionate about baking and I love watching other people bake. I’d definitely like to see Mary Berry.'
Swift is the product of a highly educated, middle class family who put manners, morals and personal development high on the family agenda.
The daughter of three generations of banking executives, she was brought up in the affluent area of Wyomissing, Pennsylvania on an 11 acre Christmas Tree Farm, the family owned as a secondary business.
From the age of nine thanks to a combination of loving Shania Twain, seeing Dolly Parton and listening to a LeAnn Rimes album her parents bought her as her first ever record, she knew she wanted to be a country singer. Her mother, Andrea, encouraged her first to paint then to paint in words.
It was not a decision that made her popular at school where everyone else was into Britney (Spears) Justin (Timberlake) and Destiny’s Child. She’d run into the toilets during break times to sit in a cubicle and sing a few lines of lyrics she had just thought up.
She wore folk style bandanas in her hair and talked about ‘switchbacks’ (a lyric that zig-zags back on itself, a favourite device in country music) .
'I am constantly misunderstood; a lot of people just don't get me,' said Taylor
'I was an oddball,' she says. 'And I was way taller than everyone else (she is a 5,11) with curly frizzy hair. People can be very mean. I became a target, a very easy target because I was also very sensitive.'
At 12 she went to Nashville with her mum and a stack of CDs she’d made, running in and out of record companies delivering the discs while Andrea waited in the car outside. She persuaded her mother and stock-broker father to move to Nashville.
By 14 she had a record deal but was ‘shelved’ a year later. She pushed on. The words; ‘Never, never, never give up’ are embossed in swirly letters on the inside of her tour-bus.
Success has not dulled her sensitivity. But in many ways it is that sensitivity that has given her success. Her confessional songs – many about lost love and broken dreams – have struck a major chord with her largely female following. She actually looks pretty close to a supermodel but in concert she talks to her audience as if she is the eternal wallflower, the geeky, gawky uncertain one.
She is known for not discussing in interviews past romances with the likes of One Direction’s Harry Styles, the super-bad boy, John Mayer, the American royal, Conor Kennedy, or the commitment phobe Jake Gyllenhaal.
In the press she is sometimes painted as a man-chaser (‘I never chase boys, they don’t like it.’) whose music consists of revenge songs directed at the men who let her down. There are whole websites devoted to working out which song is directed at which ex – Dear John for John Meyer and We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together Again is thought to be about Gyllenhaal. Swift will neither confirm nor deny.
It’s actually a pretty smart policy. Not only does it stoke massive interest in each of her four albums, but any such revelations could spark savage repercussions.
When One Directioners took I Knew You Were Trouble from her best-selling Red album to be about Harry (it was actually written before they even dated) she received death threats on Twitter from his fans urging her to ‘drink bleach’.
To Swift it is simply what she does. Her idols from Parton to Stevie Nicks to Carly Simon, Eminem and Joni Mitchell all poured their lives and love affairs into their songs.
At school, she wrote about girls being mean, about being the odd one, the kid who didn’t fit in.
'One of the great joys about writings songs is that it enabled me to have the last word.'
She adds: ‘Songs are my diaries, they always have been. You have to put your trust in everyone because putting down those real, personal details and thoughts that make a song authentic also opens you right up. I am constantly misunderstood; a lot of people just don’t get me.’
She pauses. ‘It’s like how I’m perceived to be constantly going out with people. I’m just not. It’s like she’s a hopeless romantic so she’s a serial monogamist, always dating.
'They look at me and think: ‘Oh she has to be in love or she’s not happy.’ It is possible for a woman to be a romantic but also to be single and to be happy.'
For the record then, is she single or is she in fact (as has been reported) dating either Ed Sheeran or Jared Leto.
'I am single,' she says. 'To be honest being single is one of the best things about my life right now. And whatever people think I actually love it.
'Life is so much more fun and it’s great not to have to worry about calling someone every night, just doing what you want to do. Hanging out with your friends.'
Swift is far more complex, far more intelligent than most of the stories about her give her credit for. Like Adele, she is one of the few female stars who writes their own songs. Her lyrics are clever, assured and her progression as a writer is clear.
Stevie Nicks rates her: ‘It’s women like her who are going to save the music business.’
She studies the song writing of her heroes.
'Sometimes I’ll go into the Canyons in LA and just think about all those incredible musicians who used to live there. I think you still feel an incredible energy there. I’d love to have been around then.'
For the past few weeks she has had an unprecedented number of days off. She has spent the time hiking, making granola (‘It’s so good.’) watching re-runs of Friends, Sex And The City, Law And Order and endless loops of her favourite movies 500 Days Of Summer and Love Actually.
She’s also been reading a lot of American classics: ‘For Christmas my brother (21-year-old Austin) bought me the best ever present, a collection of books called The University Library, it has poems, novels, short stories. I love it.
'I spend a lot of time at bookstores buying beaten up vintage books. You can lose yourself in a book like you can in a song and as a songwriter, you can learn just by reading the way other people write.'
What makes Swift so likeable is her habit of looking outside herself. She talks about sitting next to Julia Roberts at the Golden Globes: ‘We just started talking straight away. What struck me about her was not how beautiful she was but how youthful she was. She seemed younger than me and just extraordinary. She has a real grace.
'She is how I’d like to be. I want to grow up with grace, to age gracefully and to love life. Julia was just so full of life.'
She asks questions, talks about other musicians (Sheeran, Ellie Goulding), movies she’s seen (American Hustle) the way Eminem can tell a story.
She has a lot of friends including the actresses Emma Stone and Jennifer Lawrence, Selena Gomez and Girls writer Lena Durham who she’s grown particularly close to.
'People say the more famous you become the smaller your circle of friends becomes but for me it’s been the opposite.
'I didn’t have a lot of friends growing up and now I’m surrounded by all these amazing, strong women who are incredibly supportive.
'Like Lena. She’s crazy busy but she’ll always take my call. I can call her in the night and she’d be there to laugh with me or to chill with me or to hold my hand. And I’d be there for her.'
You can’t help wonder if the media misunderstanding of Taylor Swift will put her off dating for good. And what would happen to her music.
There is a pause and then she laughs. ‘I just don’t Google. I’m unapologetically okay with myself. I refuse to believe the good hype and I refuse to believe the bad hype. Life is good.’ Source